I don't really know about guys but girls have a tendency of comparing themselves to other. Which won't only make us think bad about ourselves, but also feel bad about ourselves. The thing is, no matter how good a girl can actually do something or no matter how she looks like on the outside; sometimes or even most of the times girls think they're not worthy.
Is it just me or do you understand how does it feel too? Even when girls receive compliments, most of them would feel awkward to accept them or maybe deny it. I dont really know what kind of thing that can make most of the girls think like this. And so do I.
Six months later my weight was 75 (i'm 1.69m) and I recognized that had 75kg wasn't a joke. then I started to have an extreme diet (for 3months--I used to eat rice weekly) and now I've lost 13kg of my weight. I know it's not healthy at all. To be honest I didn't really care about my weight that time but since I felt that people started ridicule me because of my weight yeah then I started it. I mean.. you don't have to feel "that" worry about your weight as long as you're healthy---but obesity is an exception.
That's me. Don't mean to brag--or whatsoever it is, but I just want to tell you about my experience. |
But you know, The funny thing is.. everyone is created differently, we shouldn't compare ourselves to different types of people. Nobody is perfect and let us keep it that way. Just because we dont have what they have or if we can't do what they can do, it doesnt mean we're useless. Moreover, you'll never know about what people go through; the faith and the struggle.
So girls, feel good about yourself, you are fabulously made.
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clutch from the back |
And ah! Thankyou for my mum, my lil' bro &my chums (bening, nanda, ecu) for the gift. feeling so blessed to have y'all.
sweety, you wrote something important- everyone is different and nobody's perfect. congratulations that you lost your weight- i am too 75kg and about 1,6m. always i promise to myslef that 'tomorrow i'll eat less and make exercises' but that's just words. i think i need motivation and now i see you can be motivation for me and other girls!
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ReplyDeleteI don't know why girls compare themselves to others... it's something so ingrained in all of us and it's frustrating because each one of us is so unique! Thanks for sharing your story!
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ReplyDeleteYes, you've got the whole and most important point in this post! I often feel that kind of feeling as well, when people gimme some compliments towards myself, I always deny it, dunno because I'm shy or sometimes I think they're too much about giving compliments. We as girls need to be more confident and stop comparing ourselves to others girls and start loving ourselves! A very inspirational post, dear!
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Ok this is a confession and an insecurity at the same time .
ReplyDeleteI have pretty much the same issue with myself . I used to be fit and in shape . Few years later I started "neglecting" sleep and exercise till now . Now I am 89 kilos and 5'6 tall . In other words obese . I really don't care about how people think of "MY" figure , but I started dieting last week and I already lost a kilo and I feel good . I want to say "I used to be Fat" not "I used to be Fit"
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ReplyDeleteI was 56kg and just lost like 10 kg..nobody actually teased me about me being a little overweight but somehow I just managed to do a diet and it works! Cut out all the junk food, drink more water&fruit. It makes me feel sooo much healthier. Love ur look btw<3:)
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